About Fear

"The aim of this text is not talking about love, not about pleasure, but to what extent we feel FEAR."
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  Before proceeding Recall the concept of Yin / Yang, flee the common place of good / evil, concentrate on "potential difference" that causes MOVEMENT.

Being afraid of sex is bad, but be afraid of sexual intercourse without condom is good.

Fearful of losing a loved one is good, but suffocates her with jealousy is bad.

Being afraid of the responsibility that is a good child, this responsibility is not bad.

We must seek a balance. Avoid getting the pleasure of stay paralyzed by fear is bad, but to surrender to pleasure also is catastrophic.

To live well is to succeed in this balance between fear / pleasure.

Exemplify: Do you like Bingo, but fears losing all your money, why, aside part of their income for this pleasure, the time spent on pleasure is not lost.

Set aside 10% of their salary not to play, but for your PLEASURE, if your pleasure is the game then PLAY!

If you can not impose limit for this game then being engulfed by addiction, STOP PLAYING!

If you are a "chosen" do not follow your instincts and everything will be fine, but if you do not let that creature's instinct to command your life, be very careful with the paralysis of fear or the "temptation" of pleasure, yes, the goal is NOT SUFFER.

Now, if you worship the suffering forget this nonsense, forget balance, forget logic, forget reason, suffer and be happy, just do not forget one thing:

 "No one can live your life for you. You will not have all the options in the world, but that will have to CHOOSE. "