Lose time

"What makes someone besides dating, who you want to win win, you still need counting it out to everyone?" [Nihil]
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   This is very easy, it will be interesting to discuss in that situation is not advantageous [efficient] do this. I like to bring benefits to those who read the blog, leave a sameness to the Twitters of life.
  If we want something is because we admire, admire if we think everyone admires is natural that we want to share the news.
  You buy a new car, it's okay for you, but it is something good, something that makes you happy then wants to show to friends and family.
  Did liposuction took the love handles, made a delicious cake, came a beautiful flower in your garden ... well, because with an amorous conquest should be different?

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  I do not sanctify demonizo love, consider an object of study as anything else.
  When it comes to dating, say "serious" I see no reason to hide. If you want to talk about his love for the world is even good for society, because everyone around knowing that the couple are no longer available as this more. It would be a bit embarrassing her sister try to win a guy who is already staying with you.
  Everything is very different when the goal is sexual adventure. Both the man and the woman should be very discreet.
  Feeling physical attraction to someone does not necessarily mean that you can or want to live a great love or relationship with it, this can even happen, but the first thought is to FUN.

  Pleasant company, a good sex.

  A guy who likes sex, likes sex, does not care for "fame".
   He knows he will be providing much more discreet partner to be glib.
  Most women like to have sex, but are terrified of being "evil spoken of." A guy who they know is discreet brings fun and great moments without COMPLICATIONS. It's like going to a nice restaurant, you eat well without bothering to make the food or wash the dishes and to money, well, so it serves if it can not bring us pleasure and safety.
  If the relationship become sexual passion ... then went back to the beginning of the text. But let's go a bit more for this breach, with me!
  There are people who like more than "appear" to sex itself, this chat that everyone loves sex even just chat. Many women feel more pleasure in provoking the desire to consummate the sex, are exhibitionists.
  Many men enjoy more of the fame of "eater" with friends, conquest, that sex itself, are the "hens".
  A free thinker experienced easily identifies the types and mainly KNOW YOURSELF, know what you want, what you expect from that moment or situation. Hence the possibilities are endless, you give meaning to that day, week or month, you best see fit.
  What good deepen the study of Philosophy, decipher numerous conundrums if we remain "helpless victims" of the circumstances of life?
  The philosophy that I like is one that improves my life and the people around me.
  A free thinker who has accumulated much knowledge and experience should have an efficient control over your life and all the circumstances surrounding it.
  If philosophy is not being helpful is because it is not good quality, can not resist the reality.
  Also his Philosophy can be of great quality, but you do not even believe in it. Let stored in books or discussions and do not apply in your life.
  If you can not help yourself, studying Philosophy is a big waste of time.

Hammer and Nail

"For those who only know how to use hammer, every problem is a nail." [Abraham Maslow]
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 Linear thinking is that formed by two extremes and the gradations between them always following the same line of reasoning. What is dubbed 3D go beyond linearity, float planes of thought.
  This provides numerous tools, allows to watch the event or theory from different angles, different shapes.
  Let's grab a girl "Folgosa" in a religious linearity she is under the influence of the devil, as the demons come in legions more Folgosa plus she's demonized.
  A true Christian woman has sex only after marriage.

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  Come to a psychological linearity, the girl suffered a childhood trauma, was sexually abused by developing a sexual compulsion.
  The more self control and restraint she has about her sex life was less traumatic childhood.

In linearity of a sexologist, sex is great, sex is healthy, who is not sick fuck or sex bit.
  Who thinks linearly hardly out of his line of reasoning, anyone who thinks "spatially" [3D] is compelled to observe all online imaginable prioritizing the scientific evidence or argumentative coherence.
  As I do this for a long time I'll take a shortcut. The first plan is the thought that I visit PLEASURE. It is the "nature" of women Folgosa really enjoy sex because she likes sex, regardless of anything else.

  We will submit the lines of reasoning presented the plan thought PLEASURE.

  The devil would be happy to use that body, nice to practice "evil." A compulsion is a grossly excessive pleasure in something. Sex is a source of pleasure.

  Well, that's easy, the first conclusion is that the girl LIKES and fuck a lot because we can only change the conclusion if we can eliminate this first, otherwise there is no REASON to investigate by other lines.
  I'll just go through a gap [the trauma], here begins a very complex philosophy, who has a natural aptitude for philosophy or already read the blog in a while I believe it will be able to follow, we will try.

  If you suffer a car accident develop a fear of driving, if I am assaulted'm more afraid to leave the house if I was sexually abused should fear sex.
  If you "like" to drive or take much, it becomes easier to overcome the trauma.
  If you really like to go to the club, it takes a lot of the trauma of the assault will not be enough to keep me at home.
  Well, the girl Folgosa like sex, have sex and despite the trauma is Folgosa and not because of it ... Eureka?
  However if I consider sex a dirty thing, immoral, then the trauma already fulfill its role as a trauma by default causes a Folgosa be evil and bad.

  Turns out we'd be out of the plane of thought PLEASURE, for the moral and good manners ...

  It is for another day, who managed to keep up, I am grateful for the company, who could not ... never mind, it's just nonsense. Carpe Diem!

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   The goal was to demonstrate that linear thinking is much more simple and comfortable, but anyone who thinks so is very poor arguments, has few tools to defend what they think, what they believe is right or who is solution to anything.
  You know that problem you always looked the same?
   How about daring to look at it in a completely opposite, 180 degrees, 170, 160, 140.3 ...

  What will happen? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, who knows?

  Just know that a bolt for a screwdriver is more efficient, and a nut wrench is the best, but if you are sure that everything is just nail ... good luck with the hammer!

About Ethics

"Ethics is not moral. Ethics has always been, is, and will be, the same. Morale is changeable. "[E-mail]
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  Ethics = Part of the philosophy that studies the foundations of morality, rules of conduct set
  I do not like to write about ethics because it serves a lot of nuisance sausage. Many thinkers look to the Ethics as a "philosopher's stone" of philosophy I get the dictionary definition.
 Ethics is as changeable as morals and "morality" because it attempts to define what is GOOD and BAD or GOOD and EVIL.
  I like math because it does not recognize what is good or bad, but what is more efficient or less efficient.

Let's use the example euthanasia.

  There is an "ethical consensus" that we should not kill, should maintain life even as we possibly can, ethically then a doctor should never take someone off, it would not be good.
  But the math shows us that disease statistics that the patient has no known cure, keep it on expensive, there is another patient with a higher "probability" of healing that needs that bed.
  Realize that logic suggests that not prolong life beyond what is necessary, not because it is good or bad, but because there is EFFICIENT.
  The Ethics sometimes ignores the logic:

"Life is a gift from God and only he can take", "While there is life there is hope", "If science allows the patient to remain alive then he will be forced to stay alive", "A life is priceless" "Tomorrow we can find a cure" ...

   Ethics can be filled with as many as subjectivism and moral dogmas and morals because it is nothing more than a set of rules of conduct.
  In some Muslim countries if I have 3 wives can not be accused of not being ethical, the law allows me, morality does not condemn me.
  Here in Brazil if I'm a lover not being ethical with my wife and if I have another wife until I can be arrested.
  Is it ethical to have a wife, it is ethical to have 3 wives, or varies according to the established rules of conduct?

   "Decipher me or I'll devour!"

Marriage Platonic

"In the past there was platonic love, platonic marriages there today." [Bernard Shaw]
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  In the past, marriages were arranged by interest, if the woman could get a husband you provesse sustenance was not violent and would be a great business.
  Woman also did not expect much, domestic chores were so many that it was a good housewife would be a good deal.
  Today the husband and wife both hold this even more than her husband can say that idealize a partner, create platonic marriage
  I understand platonic love, but do not like it, do not think efficiently. In the "equation" of Platonic love is an important element for it to work, have their charm, their grace, DISTANCIA.

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  When I test a thought to see that he is well structured try breaking it in every way possible, shooting and introduce variables and observe the result.
  It has an oriental tale that says a mountain from afar can be as beautiful and perfect as we want, but if we want to scale it will have to get closer and near the mountain is what it is and not what we wish it to be.

  Realize that for both Plato and in the Eastern tale idealization is only possible with the DISTANCE?

  Today people marry only moved by passion, why let the distance.
  Idealize a wife, a husband and idealize believe that after marriage, partners will be what they want them to be.
  The platonic marriage headed for the gap, first with constant friction of minds and then inevitably bodies.
  Realize that it was not possible to remove the DISTANCIA the equation of platonic love?
   It's like taking the oxygen from the water and makes you wish that she remains water.
  I am not proposing a return of interest in marriage, the wedding was a great passion for advancing civilization, just think it's good we escape the traps of IDEALIZATION.

If the dating period idealization is bad, after marriage she is even more corrosive. In dating is possible to maintain a certain distance, the marriage has no way.
 The purpose of the exaggerated and bitter Mr Shaw said:

 "Marriage is not lottery. Sometimes wins the lottery itself. "

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! This Mr. Shaw ...

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Understanding of Fear

"Liberty means responsibility, that is why most people fear it." [Bernard Shaw]
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  Let's stay a little longer philosophizing about fear?
  I actually like to meet New York have freedom to do this, but if I were given a pass to go up there alone, would admit that with a little fear, without mastering the language or know the city would have many difficulties. My first providence would look for someone to tell me what fazer.Você will say that this is not a fear, it is a concern, but what really is the difference?

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  If I worry when my daughter on the street this is because I'm afraid that something will happen.
  I told you we should not scour the Abyss behind our fears, to face up to magnificent structures of thought that all suck, cause depression, should keep us apart, at a safe distance.
  My fear of going to New York would be greater than the fear of going to Sao Paulo, but go to Sao Paulo alone does not make me comfortable, depending on destination would be more comfortable if someone was with me and tell me what to do, where to go .
  Realize?
   I have freedom, I'm lucid, I can take care of me, and yet freedom brings together FEAR.
   Meeting tranquility and security if someone tells me what to do!!!

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  A people 'oppressed' hopes that the dictator will lead to peace and security. If this does not happen the people still have the comfort of having someone to put the BLAME someone to demonize.
  Welcome [or evil coming] from this plane of thought, this piece of the Abyss where:

   Freedom gives us afraid, be responsible for yourself is scary.

  A queen of England said that the more we know more forgiving.
  I think the word forgiveness very strong, I prefer to say that the experience, knowledge can bring us to this WISDOM and UNDERSTANDING.

The equation would look like this:

 "The greatest wisdom, the greater our ability to understand."

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