"Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, and half shut after him." [Franklin]
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I told here that marriage is not the consummation of love, but the consummation of our desire to start a family. If the two situations great match for you.
Please, at least you who somehow absorbed some of the Philosophy of Mathematics forget mediocrity marry only for love. Put something in your head: NO! Love can not all, can not handle everything, does not guarantee happiness to anyone, even quite the contrary, it can be terribly DESTRUCTIVE.
You passionate woman, only have sex with protection, suddenly it will be reported to be a father, the great love of your life can turn into a toad, was up just a pussy ... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
The sad part of this fairy tale is that a child born without a father, not biological, that we all have, but that father love, one that will be with us in the prime of life and also difficult.
Now a colleague reminded that despite all that had clarification pregnant with a guy from church, Christian Congregation [think], one that men are on one side and women on the other.
I was amazed with her happiness, her head was all right, before the belly grow he would marry her and be happy forever missed combine this with the citizen. Of course we hoped for their happiness, but I confess I feared the worst.
Everything went wrong. The boy did not want to take his son [later a baby girl was born], even got another girlfriend. The church decried that Christian was the one who had sex before marriage?
They think she left to kill? Of course not, she is a woman and is "warrior," her daughter take care of herself, and her God!! [Is God now??]
She did not need the boy nor anyone, for his daughter would not miss anything ...
I asked her if she liked her father [I already knew the answer].
- You know I love my father, he is everything to me, do not know what my life would be without him.
You know "Mary" for her daughter will miss a father. What life, God or your mother gave you irresponsibly denied his daughter, a father who loves her as much as you love her, do you really think your daughter will not miss anything?
Right now she must understand the problem, she looked at me in a manner so lost, I just cry, we cry together.
Oh, how difficult it is to live, not no joke, it hurts too much.
My daughters have a great mother and a good father, good that all children that even if they could not get everything they had at least the basics, a good father and a good mother, the basics never looked so EVERYTHING.
No further contact, time separates us from friends, I wish all the luck in the world for more than this little princess today must be 8 years old, she can give a good father to your son or daughter that one day will come, which may give his daughter something that was denied, a GOOD FATHER.
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