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   "Your spouse may be interested in someone else. It will take a while to learn that this "new love" is not the solution, and it is a reflection of something that she needs from her husband, or even a desire that she has collected for anything whose task it is delaying. "   [Nihil]

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  Because a new love can not occur?

  For psychology it may be difficult or impossible, but in Philosophy OBSERVE it is very common to happen.

  How many men and women marry passionate about making vows of love and at the time of divorce visibly not support more?

  How many people on two or two suitors suffer decide who will date?

  Feed these MYTHS that if a man seeks sex outside the home because the wife is not knowing this be desirable, that woman just fall in love with another man if your current partner is not knowing it is "good."

 This "treat her right" is so subjective and broad Freudian society can put absolutely everything on it.

  The "true love" is unique and lasts forever, so they say.

  I've witnessed countless times disoriented, tormented people to realize that other love this appearing.

   Some feel guilty as if they were already cheating in thought, but most blame the partner (a) who say they have "cooled" with them.

  I have written a lot about it, for those who still do not get no use persists, it would be lost time.

  Living is no playground and new loves happen even if our current love is within what is expected.

  Who leaves home with the car waiting for an accident to happen?

  But accidents happen even if you do not have "fault" occurred in none.

  Bad things can happen when we leave home.

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  Parents like to say that I love all their children equally, this is what society expected of them Freudian.

  Philosophy seems useful "keep up appearances", even though I knew that my mother loves my brother more than me, it would not be wise to say that to my face even as a child.

  However my mother should not feel bad about it, every child is in a way we do not choose what to feel, and behavior of my brother may be better "tuned" to LIKE my mother.

  I do not think that these tastes of parents manifest since childhood although Philosophically we find that this "automatic" empathy is possible.

  At the moment I have no preference for either of my daughters, but I believe that if a show logic and filed and another very instinctive, the first taking my preference.

  If both prove equally or filed desajuizadas who will treat me better my preference.

  I believe that with two children is more likable of the two equally, as the family grows and different personalities happen preferences also intensify.

  I have written here that the oddly part of the couple that is more emotionally dependent on the other is precisely what makes the most unpleasant relationship.

  The person wants to control you in many ways so just opening big gap for a more friendly person out there.

  Paradoxically one loses the desire for the other, but this would not be the "true love" who does not go out or weakens over time?

  So when another love happens we can not speak of a "solution" is more like a bump in the road that we have to turn around to continue in the same direction or change it. Continue the relationship or end it.

  Understand that things HAPPEN in life.

  Philosophy leads to planes of thought that not everything is cause and effect, action and reaction.

  Things may also happen due to chance or some "interference".

  This ILLUSION that we can ever have control over everything and everyone is just another MYTH.

  Psychology deals with creating magical formulas for life, philosophy understands that life is magic and humbly try to understand it aware that it never fully occur because ...

  The life we ​​planned, but not controls.

Now you come to tell me you missed

It was me who wanted but did not know

And now cries of love

Well I wanted to stay, but you were

And I felt like a river full of hurt

That no longer runs towards the sea.  Click Here

It was sad almost went mad with grief

On the day you were

I remember, I remember the afternoon sun

You're leaving in front

And I staying here only

Crying you back

And asks to stay

And says he has cried so

That his tears became a river to the sea ...

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