Marriage Platonic

"In the past there was platonic love, platonic marriages there today." [Bernard Shaw]
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  In the past, marriages were arranged by interest, if the woman could get a husband you provesse sustenance was not violent and would be a great business.
  Woman also did not expect much, domestic chores were so many that it was a good housewife would be a good deal.
  Today the husband and wife both hold this even more than her husband can say that idealize a partner, create platonic marriage
  I understand platonic love, but do not like it, do not think efficiently. In the "equation" of Platonic love is an important element for it to work, have their charm, their grace, DISTANCIA.

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  When I test a thought to see that he is well structured try breaking it in every way possible, shooting and introduce variables and observe the result.
  It has an oriental tale that says a mountain from afar can be as beautiful and perfect as we want, but if we want to scale it will have to get closer and near the mountain is what it is and not what we wish it to be.

  Realize that for both Plato and in the Eastern tale idealization is only possible with the DISTANCE?

  Today people marry only moved by passion, why let the distance.
  Idealize a wife, a husband and idealize believe that after marriage, partners will be what they want them to be.
  The platonic marriage headed for the gap, first with constant friction of minds and then inevitably bodies.
  Realize that it was not possible to remove the DISTANCIA the equation of platonic love?
   It's like taking the oxygen from the water and makes you wish that she remains water.
  I am not proposing a return of interest in marriage, the wedding was a great passion for advancing civilization, just think it's good we escape the traps of IDEALIZATION.

If the dating period idealization is bad, after marriage she is even more corrosive. In dating is possible to maintain a certain distance, the marriage has no way.
 The purpose of the exaggerated and bitter Mr Shaw said:

 "Marriage is not lottery. Sometimes wins the lottery itself. "

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! This Mr. Shaw ...

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