Romantic or Cold

"Love is not obliged, feel or do not feel."

One of the hardest things to convince people it's about the inaccuracy of life, they understand lip service, but not internalize it.

These days I talked about the endless variations with respect to sexual desire, he can barely even exist. The bulk of Freud based his theories on libido, sexual desire, and just this was his biggest mistake. [Of course, in my opinion]

Math is a good basis for psychology, a great base for Philosophy. Sex does not serve as the basis of either, it varies greatly from person to person. Sex is not the object of study and basis for the study.

But today I want to talk about love, it goes without saying that it is not based on Mathematical Philosophy, may even be in many religions, this is just another "object of study".

When I meditated on love began to notice a large number of people unable to love in that sense "romantic" of the thing. Yes, adolescence and even a bit later felt full force of that feeling, but the "heart turned cold" [Cartola great!].

Cold as?

They can love a person but not to the point that they lose that person's life would be meaningless as with the love of adolescence.

They are usually people who already loved about 3 different people have gone through various dating and know that the love is gone there is no impediment for another to appear and even if it does not, the like, having a nice company is enough.

We can say that the "heart" found a "balance" will not have that happiness unrestrained romantic love, but also will not have a depression infinite if the thing is not till death do you part.

Remember Yin / Yang, forget the linearity Good / Evil.

The heart gets cold is good or bad? I do not think that people have the choice as to what they feel, the balance seems more logical, then we can be logical in the ACT, but the feel is far our control.

If you feel romantic love that you know is not the measure of all things and many people are cold hearted.

Your partner can support very well end the relationship, now that is romantic for you to see her with another the world will crumble on its head, one of the biggest pains that a human being can feel.

Do you think this complicated? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Not yet entered the Abyss!!

Who is the cold heart can live a living hell, he did not recognize how cold heart, he does not "autofilosofia" he wants to know the other did not know themselves.

The person is in a good relationship, but runs after a romantic love that is no longer capable of feeling, creates the illusion that met for about 2 years after going behind other love ...

Let us stop here, not now I'm so into the Abyss get together, it's very tiring, I'm a leseira, must be the heat ... [is, this excuse is just an illusion as the pursuit of romantic love by heart cold. The leseira is my natural state, independent of the heat, it only aggravates, as well as push the envelope with "cold heart" only increases the distance.]