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Previously marriages were arranged, if the woman could a husband who will provesse sustenance was not violent and would be a great deal.
Womans also did not expect much, domestic chores were so many that it was a good housewife would be a good deal.
Today her husband expects both wife and wife expects the husband even more, we can say that we idealize a partner (a), in this sense "platonizamos" marriage.
I understand platonic love, but do not like it, do not think efficiently.
Na "equation" platonic love there is an important element for it to work, has its charm, grace, this element is the DISTANCE.
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Has an Eastern tale that says a mountain from afar can be as beautiful and perfect as we want, but if we want to scale it to get closer and near the mountain is what it is and not what we wish it to be. Realize that both for Plato and in the Eastern tale idealization is only possible with the DISTANCE?
Today people marry only driven by passion, let the reason the distance.
idealize a wife, a husband and idealize believe that after marriage, the partners will be wanting they are, what they "dreamed" it would be.
platonic marriage goes to the gap, first of minds with constant friction and then inevitably bodies ... the mere presence of another (a) bother us.
Realize that it was not possible to remove DISTANCE from the equation of platonic love? It happens for good or ill.
's something like taking the oxygen from the formula of water and wish it remains water.
'm not proposing a return of interest in marriage, marriage for passion / love was a major advance civilization, just believe which is good to run away from the trappings of IDEALIZATION.
Whether the courtship period idealization is bad, after marriage she is even more corrosive.
In dating is possible to maintain a certain distance, the marriage does not have to.
Incidentally the exaggerated and bitter Bernard Shaw said:
"Marriage is not lottery. The lottery sometimes get up. "
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! This Shaw ...
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