Karol >> "The only thing that makes me want to get married or have any kind of relationship with a man is the possibility of having children.
I catch myself really praying to be infertile in some way, so I can 'free' myself from the nightmare of dealing with men."
William >> "A person who wants to have children praying to be infertile!?
Right off the bat, you can see a lot of immaturity there.
The difficulty in dealing with 'men' in such a generalized way as in this post also suggests that the problem is likely with you, perhaps that same 'immaturity' I mentioned.
Across the various environments I’ve been through, school, church, work, outings, I’ve met countless women.
Some had personalities that were very incompatible with mine, so I preferred to keep my distance; but that happened with men too.
Most people I’ve met in life are good people, pretty decent overall.
A few were very compatible with me, great colleagues usually from work or school.
I’m straight, so I don't feel sexual attraction to men.
We can only choose one person to date and marry, and I live very happily with my wife.
Treating all women (or men) as if they were all the same makes no logical sense; each person has their own personality.
Now, if you have an aversion to men, that takes us into a different realm.
You might be asexual, but in that case, you’d also have an aversion to relationships with women.
If you are attracted to women, the best path is to embrace who you are.
When you find a partner to marry, you can turn to a sperm bank.
In Brazil, it is legal to use assisted reproduction techniques, including artificial insemination or in vitro fertilization with donated/frozen sperm.
A mother can register the child directly at the Civil Registry Office by presenting a statement from the human reproduction center, with only maternal parentage listed, without the need for a lawsuit.
'Either you become who you were born to be, or you will spend your life making excuses for never having become that person.'
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